Dr. Jose Linares Cerón
PERU .- (AGENCIALAVOZ.ORG) In recent months I have received thousands of e-mail, asking to write an article on Privacy marriage, sexuality of a Christian couple. I think my friend Dr. Hector Zorrilla and his wife, can really help, are specialists in matters of sexuality, but I have my view pastoral and professional.
on the spiritual plane
The married must establish and maintain a home centered on the love of Jesus. If a married couple living a full gospel in their lives, the addition of love and kindness shown not only in respect of the couple in private but touch the glory of a blessed sexual life in all its beautiful expressions of love. Also enjoy enormous advantages over other couples who do not have a spiritual dimension. A good marriage is not one where perfection reigns, so the importance of always enable us on these issues will help us understand to be more tolerant to be good professionals to be a partner ready to face the critical issues in the marriage. A prayer life partner is vital to maintain the divine in everyday life, and the intimacy the rewards will touch the glory of love, a couple who love and respect, and value their communion with God in daily life.
Professionally
Many write me very concerned if it is OK to have sex with his wife (o) and others often ask me what would be the ideal frequency for sex?. The regularity with which a couple make love depend what you both feel or want and what they think is enough and satisfactory to them. Nor should we believe the myth that the more sex you have, the couple is wanted or needed anymore. Rather, in many cases, the relationship reaches a point that transcends the physical and many more come to complement other areas. Thus, there are more couples who enjoy long conversations at night, seeing a good movie, trips to concerts, cinemas or theaters or other activities that come to fill them and supplementing their love in the physical act of sex. They are also very common other behaviors (if couples are usually in full communion with God) and keep a great sex life, and take the following days in religious activities, and romance, like walking, laughing, talking etc. Well it is quite possible that I say: How beautiful, how beautiful, but my home is a mess, looks a hell of doubt and frustration. Well I advise you to take seriously the spiritual plane, you see as the impossible becomes possible through prayer.
A common belief is that married life is to do it every day. While there are those who argue for a time a daily rhythm, it is common that relationships are not held every day and, of course, one should not understand sex marriage as a fulfillment of our duty at home. When There is disagreement in the marriage that she one day wants and he does not, or if the man wishes the woman many times and not so much, it may be that this couple, and this is not a rule, have different needs. There are people who maintain relations meets twice a week, others do so every two weeks, for others enough to a weekend. A recent survey realized that in some parts of Africa, the black population did several times a day, but it was interesting to see that when they moved to urban areas and change their habits (diet, housing conditions, increased stress ), this frequency was reduced in a remarkable way. Some complained that they could not do more than once a day!
But there is something true that a couple can reduce the frequency of their relationship and is falling into monotony, instead of making a fun and passionate relationship, it soon become tedious. To this solution is to use the most imagination in every encounter with your partner, always in my lectures I tell my students, love the intimacy you have to be an artist, we men must be at the height of a great life sexual, God gave us to love our bodies, of course, with intelligence, never let the romance in your daily life: We think that sexual encounters are not merely an orgasm, but also games, cuddles, kisses, tender words, use your imagination begins to draw and color, your intimate as an artist painting the beauty of love the woman in your life, your dreams, love of your life, your air, the existence of your life, we men are the tree of the garden and the women are the flowers. If you collect all the trees in the world would make him a pen and my ink would sea, and the universe would be my paper, write "I love you love." For all the above, we think that there is no established brands to be met or yes in terms of quantity or frequency of intercourse, if both partners are satisfied happy and enjoying the quality of the sexual encounter. Remember that we are designed to love with love and tenderness.
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